What we know about the 3 Michigan State victims.

4 signs divorce may be on the horizon. Plus, sign up for Jenna's virtual book club event. February 15, 2023 | [VIEW IN BROWSER]( This is TODAY February 15, 2023 | [VIEW IN BROWSER]( This is TODAY The three students who were killed in the shooting at Michigan State are identified by police, and the gunman's father shares how his son turned "evil and mean" following the death of his mother. Plus, best-selling self-help author Rachel Hollis mourns the loss of her ex-husband, Dave Hollis, following his death at 47. The Latest   [A fraternity leader, a high school basketball star and an aspiring doctor are mourned at MSU.]( The [three students who were killed]( in a shooting at Michigan State on Monday night were [identified by police]( as junior Alexandria Verner, and sophomores Brian Fraser and Arielle Anderson. Verner was a multi-sport athlete in high school, Fraser was the president of a fraternity, and Anderson was a straight-A student who wanted to become a doctor, according to their families. The shooting also brought back [traumatic memories]( for MSU students who [survived other mass shootings, including the 2012 Sandy Hook shooting]( and the 2021 attack at Oxford High School outside Detroit. More details have emerged about the gunman, whose father told NBC News that his [son turned "evil and mean"]( and became a recluse after his mother's death two years ago. [Here's the latest](. [Rachel Hollis, 'Girl, Wash Your Face' author, is 'devastated' after death of her ex-husband at 47.]( [Rachel Hollis](, the best-selling self-help author of "Girl, Wash Your Face," shared that her family is "devastated" following the [death of her ex-husband, Dave Hollis](, at 47. His cause of death has not yet been determined. Dave Hollis was the [father of the couple's four children]( and a former Disney executive who left the company to pursue a career alongside his then-wife. Rachel shared a [statement on Instagram]( yesterday after the news of her ex-husband's death. "I have no words and my heart is too broken to find them," she said. [These 4 signs of divorce are over 90% accurate, research shows.]( A marriage researcher recently identified [4 signs about how a couple communicates that can predict whether they'll break up]( with over 90% accuracy. Toxic criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling and contempt can all spell doom for a relationship — but there are ways to address each issue head on. The clinical director at an institute that provides couples' counseling shared a [3-step approach]( with us that starts with stating your feelings, such as "I'm worried." A relationship coach also suggested [daily 10-minute check-ins]( to make sure resentments aren't building. [Read more here](. 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