Weekend: Dealing With One-Sided Friendships 🙄

But first: go ahead, stay in bed and read — Check out what we Skimm’d for you today August 17, 2024 [Subscribe]( [Read in browser]( [daily_skimm_weekend] Header Image But first: [go ahead, stay in bed and read]( --------------------------------------------------------------- [Update location]( or [View forecast]( EDITOR’S NOTE Happy Saturday. I doubt this is what Elisabeth Kübler-Ross had in mind when she identified the stages of grief, but I’m in denial about summer almost being over. So while the PSL hive stocks up on [surprisingly stylish “modern granny” cardigans]( (words I never thought I’d write), [hats that rival Carrie Bradshaw’s gingham monstrosity]( (the accessory is apparently the thing for autumn), and “[fall’s cool-girl sneaker](,” I’ll stick with my summer staples. I’ll also try these [fried chicken-coded ice cream sandwiches]( (bizarre, yes, but they’re supposedly “the best you’ll ever eat”), which I might pair with [the most unexpected ice cream topping]( of all time. And, after watching [this mesmerizing blind taste test of Diet Coke]( (please explain how someone distinguishes a Burger King one from a McDonald’s one), I’ll wash that all down with an ice-cold DC. — Melissa Goldberg / Senior Editor / Washington, DC [READ] 3 Reads That Are Perfect for the Beach — Or, Really, Anywhere theSkimm As we make our way through the dog days of summer, we’re all about getting lost in books that are light enough to read at the beach, yet heavy on the entertainment. That includes these three delightful reads, all of which pass the end-of-summer vibe check... [The Rom-Commers]( by Katherine Center: Emma’s been a full-time caretaker for her dad, so her life (and dreams of becoming a screenwriter) have been on hold. When she gets the opportunity to rewrite a script for famous-yet-broody screenwriter, Charlie Yates, she jumps at the chance. The catch? The screenplay is supposed to be a rom-com, which Charlie hates with a passion — and Emma loves. [Very Bad Company]( by Emma Rosenblum: Caitlin Levy leaves her successful-but-boring position as a TV producer to step in as head of events at an illustrious tech firm — which comes with a $3 million paycheck. Her inaugural event, a high-profile team-building session in Miami Beach, quickly goes haywire when an executive turns up dead…and puts the company’s merger in jeopardy. Corporate intrigue 🤝 murder mystery. [Just for the Summer]( by Abby Jimenez: When Justin realizes he’s stuck with the curse that any woman he dates will find the love of their life after dating him, he posts about it on Reddit. Emma, a travel nurse, reads his post and is shocked to discover that someone else deals with the exact same thing. She messages him, and the two decide to “fake date” in hopes that by dating each other, they can cancel their curse and break the pattern. PS: Looking for more summer reads? Here are [17 other books to dive into](. We’re also reading: - In pets: “[Why Did I Stop Loving My Cat When I Had a Baby?](” (The Cut) - In relationships: “[The Bridesmaid-To-Ex-Best-Friend Pipeline](” (Bustle) - In wellness: [Non-Nap Naps — aka, “Non-Sleep Deep Rest” — Are Supposedly a Thing Now]( (Allure) [EAT] This Honey Mustard Chicken With Peach Salad Is the Solution to Tonight’s Dinner Problem theSkimm We’re officially in the homestretch of summer, so if you’re running low on easy, breezy dinner ideas — and, let’s be real, energy — we get it. Thankfully, this [Grilled Honey Mustard Chicken with Peach Salad by The Modern Proper]( is here to pull us through. Of course, it follows all the unwritten rules of summer cooking (it’s bright, almost too easy, and full of fresh produce), but what really sets it apart is a homemade honey mustard sauce that acts as both a marinade for the juicy chicken thighs and a dressing for the peach and cucumber salad. You’re welcome. The Time Commitment: Just over an hour. But keep in mind, the chicken is marinating for half of that time, which requires little to no attention. Key Tips: No grill? No problem. According to The Modern Proper, you can bake the chicken at 400 degrees for about 30 minutes. Also, if you don’t have perfectly ripe peaches (we swear by [the “brown stem” rule]( when shopping), use apricots or nectarines instead. Other Takes: Need more dinner inspo? We have plenty of other winner, winner chicken dinners (sorry, had to). Starting with this [Sheet Pan Chicken with Crushed Olives]( — which, no exaggeration, may be the most impressive sheet pan dinner of all time. Or, consider these crispy [Thai Chicken Thighs](, which are marinated in “a bath of all the best Thai flavors” (think: Thai basil, fish sauce, ginger). And for an equally flavorful recipe, try this [Grilled Peruvian Chicken with Green Sauce](, which “prioritizes speed and ease,” making it simple enough for weeknights. Same goes for this [Lemon and Garlic Chicken with Cherry Tomatoes](, which is perfect if your farmers market is still bursting with local tomatoes. What’s new in food & home: - Forget grated Parmesan — we should all be topping our food with [grated pickles](, apparently. - To confirm what you probably already knew: Yes, you’re using plastic wrap the wrong way. Here’s [what you should do instead](. - Just when you thought brand collabs couldn’t get any more chaotic, in came Hellmann’s mayo-inspired…[fragrance](. [GO] For an Easy Beach Vacation Without the Crowds, Curaçao Is the Answer theSkimm If you’re looking to book an easy Caribbean getaway with white-sand beaches, dreamy sunsets, and turquoise water, you’ve probably got the usual suspects, like Aruba, on your radar. But what if we told you there’s a lesser-known destination that’s just as picturesque and isn’t overrun with tourists? Enter: [Curaçao](. The island — which was colonized by the Spanish, Dutch, and British, but is now an autonomous country within the Kingdom of the Netherlands — is conveniently located outside the hurricane belt and is known for its candy-colored buildings, vibrant culture, and perfectly blue coves. Not to mention, its signature blue liqueur, which can and should be enjoyed in the form of a delicious cocktail on the beach. 🛏 If you’re the type that likes to have options — and, honestly, who doesn’t? — check out [Avila Beach Hotel](. Located 15 minutes by foot from downtown, the beachfront property feels like its own private oasis, with a charming Dutch colonial facade, a unique history (it was formerly a boarding school and private hospital), a luxurious spa, a lively alfresco restaurant, and not one, but two private beaches. 🌈 To get a feel for Curaçao’s rich mix of culture and history, stroll through Willemstad, its colorful capital and a UNESCO World Heritage site. Start in [the buzzy Otrobanda district](, where you’ll come across eye-catching murals and the [Kurá Hulanda Museum](, considered to be one of the most comprehensive exhibitions on the Caribbean slave trade. Then walk across the scenic [Queen Emma Bridge]( to [the historic Punda district](, where in addition to tight alleyways packed with boutiques and galleries, you’ll find what’s believed to be [the oldest continuously used synagogue in the Americas]( and [Handelskade]( (the Instagram-famous strip of sherbet-colored homes). [Beach in Curaçao] 🌊 Curaçao is [home to more than 30 beaches](, many with hidden caves and coves. So one of the best ways to explore the island is by beach hopping: Playa Forti is popular for cliff jumping; Grote Knip is known for its white sand and pristine water; and Playa Santa Cruz is a local fave close to the famous snorkeling spot, Blue Room Cave. If and when you need a break from the beach, visit [Shete Boka National Park]( (expect stunning views from limestone bluffs, massive waves crashing into rocky inlets, and lots of iguanas) and nearby [Christoffel National Park]( to hike to the island’s highest point. 🍴 Given Curaçao’s location, it’s no surprise seafood is everywhere (make sure to get the freshly caught, whole fried fish at [Purunchi Koredor](). But there’s also plenty of local specialities on menus across the island, including keshi yena (a cheese casserole stuffed with spiced meat) and karni stoba (a braised beef stew). Try these and other traditional dishes at [Gouverneur de Rouville]( or [Plasa Bieu](, a no-frills, covered food court. And, of course, no trip to Curaçao is complete without sipping its famous blue liqueur, so stop by [Mood Beach]( for a Blue Vintage cocktail with a sunset view. [Ask An Expert Etiquette Edition] We asked you to vote on an etiquette question you’d like answered. The winner was: Q: Whenever I hang out with my friend, we always talk about her career, her relationships, and her problems. She never asks about my life. How do I tell her that our friendship feels one-sided? [Two women chatting over coffee] “Simply say to your friend, ‘I’m so excited to hear about you, but I’d really like to tell you about what’s going on with me and include you in my life’ … Then share whatever [updates] you have. [As you’re doing so, ask yourself], Are they really listening to me? If they’re not, you can say, ‘I want to be a supportive friend, and I’m happy for all the good things in your life, but I’d love it if you could do the same for me.’ Most of the time, people will say, ‘I didn’t have a clue I was doing that’ or ‘I appreciate you bringing that to my attention.’” [Heidi Dulebohn] Featured Expert Heidi Dulebohn [International etiquette coach]( [tell us] Which etiquette question should an expert answer next week? [I’m the only one of my friends with a home big enough for gatherings, so I’m constantly hosting girls’ nights and other parties. I don’t mind, but my friends never offer to bring anything or chip in. How can I tell them I’m feeling taken advantage of?]( [I got married six months ago, and we still haven’t sent thank-you notes to our friends and family. Is it too late to do so?]( [My parents hate flying, so the expectation is always that I’ll travel to them. I’m happy to do so, but am I wrong for thinking they should contribute to the cost of my plane ticket?]( [skimm picks] Trending products and brands our shopping team has been loving recently. Bring back the date-night dress. We're eyeing this [halter-neck LBD]( and[slinky slip]( that'd look good under candlelight. All we need now is [a shot of espresso]( to stay up after 11 PM. --------------------------------------------------------------- Can't get enough of your Birks? 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