Weekend: Is It OK to Not Buy a Wedding Gift? 🎁

But first: five-star stays for three-star prices — Check out what we Skimm’d for you today June 29, 2024 [Subscribe]( [Read in browser]( [daily_skimm_weekend] [Header Image]( [Together with]( [Scottsdale Arizona]( But first: [five-star stays for three-star prices]( --------------------------------------------------------------- [Update location]( or [View forecast]( EDITOR’S NOTE Happy Saturday. The only thing better than the new season of “The Bear”? Yes, [these “adult Capri Sun” drinks](. But also, watching the internet collectively [swoon over Ayo Edebiri](, who magically makes everything look cool, including this [Laura Ashley-esque padded duvet dress]( (which, as the name implies, looks like a duvet). Someone else who makes everything look cool? Justin Bieber…at least, when it comes to [women’s footwear](. Speaking of things I never saw coming, [sequined whale tails]( are having a deeply unsettling resurgence. To help my millennial eyes recover from those images, I’ll be making a special trip to Costco this weekend, solely to nab these in-demand [Japanese ice cream cookie bars](. Though, I might have to grab a box of the new [Crumbl cookie cereal]( too. That is, if there’s any left. — Taylor Trudon / Writer, Culture & Lifestyle / Brooklyn, NY [READ: “Tehrangeles” by Porochista Khakpour] “Tehrangeles” by Porochista Khakpour theSkimm What do you get when you combine a wealthy Iranian-American family living in an LA McMansion, a microwaveable snack empire, and a reality TV show? “[Tehrangeles](” by Porochista Khakpour. Accurately [described as]( “the Kardashians meet ‘Little Women’ and ‘Crazy Rich Asians,’” the wildly entertaining novel follows the Milanis, who are about to film their own reality TV series when they realize their biggest secrets are about to be exposed to the world…before cameras even start rolling. Expect plenty of sharp satire and hilariously accurate observations about the ultra-rich in this pop culture fan’s dream read. We asked Khakpour a few questions. Here’s what she had to say… Q: You’re stranded on a desert island and can only eat one thing. What would it be? Khakpour: If I could survive on Dole Whip alone, I would. Otherwise, [Ghormeh Sabzi](, a nutrient-rich Persian herb and kidney bean stew. Q: What’s your favorite unapologetic indulgence? Khakpour: Long [Aprés Gel-X nails](, especially when I am not on a big writing deadline. Q: What’s your shortcut to relaxation? Khakpour: Delusional levels of avoidant behavior and carb-loading — but not to run a marathon, just to sleep/nap really deeply. We’re also reading: - [The Vexing Problem of the ‘Medium Friend’](...they’re not maid of honor material but they’re also more than just an Instagram friend — which can make navigating this kind of casual friendship the trickiest of all. - [‘Black Girl Tanning’ Is the Summer’s Most Radical Beauty Trend](…for decades, self-tanning products were made for (and marketed to) fair skin. Thanks to Black beauty influencers, that’s changing. - [She Makes Emily Henry’s Books Sound Hot](…how the “so-called Adele of audiobooks” — aka, Julia Whelan — gets your heart racing. [EAT: Cooking With Cocktail Rings’s Tuscan Turkey Sandwich] This Is the Only Sandwich You Should Be Making This Summer theSkimm We’re no scientists, but sandwiches just hit different when eaten at the beach — particularly when it’s [Cooking With Cocktail Rings’s Tuscan Turkey Sandwich](. Not only does it have a variety of flavors and textures (think: fluffy focaccia, roasted red peppers, fresh pesto, sun-dried tomato mayo), but all of the ingredients are assembled in the optimal ratios and order, so you get a bit of everything in each bite. No wonder you’ll also want to make it for pool days, kids’ camp lunches, and lazy weeknight dinners. It’s that good. The Time Commitment: As long as you use freshly sliced deli meat and store-bought pesto, this sort of recipe doesn’t involve cooking so much as assembly — which can be done in about 15 minutes. Key Tips: You can tailor this recipe to your taste or what you have on hand. Swap spinach for arugula or other greens. Replace bell peppers with thinly sliced tomatoes. And for a more traditional Tuscan sandwich, use roasted chicken breasts. Also, if you’re eating at home, it tastes as delicious served hot — just use a panini press or cast iron skillet for crispy, melty cheese. Other Takes: While this is our sandwich of the summer, other honorable mentions include: [Pan Bagnat]( (essentially, niçoise salad in sandwich form); this sweet, salty, and slightly spicy [Peach and Prosciutto Sandwich](; and this [Caesar Club Sandwich]( — which we consider a top 10 food mash-up. Looking for something vegetarian? Consider this [Halloumi, Arugula, and Tomato Sandwich]( or this [Green Goddess Caprese Sandwich](, which puts a tangy twist on the Italian classic. And, of course, you can never go wrong with a [Classic Italian Sub Sandwich](. What’s new in food & home: - When was the last time you cleaned your headboard? We regret to inform you, it probably [wasn’t recently enough](. - Let’s face it: Meticulously picking herb leaves off their stems is nobody’s idea of a good time. Allow us to introduce you to [this genius cheese grater hack](. - Have your sad desk salads gotten even sadder? Here are [three simple tricks for making a Kardashian-worthy salad](, according to the family’s private chef. [Scottsdale, Arizona]( This Arizona City Has Something for Everyone theSkimm Travelers tend to head to southwestern hotspots like [Scottsdale, Arizona]( in the shoulder seasons of spring and fall. Temperatures may be milder then, but summer visitors are rewarded with fewer crowds — plus [seasonal discounts on hotels and activities](. Making now a great time to check out this Sonoran Desert city at the foot of the McDowell Mountains. Just don’t forget a camera because the jaw-dropping natural beauty deserves a spot on your IG grid. 🛏 At the risk of sounding pushy, you simply have to stay at [The Andaz Resort and Bungalows](. It’s a stone’s throw from downtown Scottsdale, but it covers 23 acres, which gives it a private, peaceful feel. That’s emphasized by the resort’s proximity to nature — it’s just a few miles to can’t-miss hiking trails. 🛶 There are eight lakes and rivers within an hour’s drive of Scottsdale, which means plenty of opportunities to get out on the water. Hit up Salt River for [tubing]( or a [kayaking tour](. Want something a little lower impact? [The Scottsdale Quarter]( has a beautiful pop-jet fountain that’s perfect for kids (and adults) to splash in. [Woman in front of mural] 🎈 Check off a major bucket list item with a hot air balloon ride. Whether you ride at sunrise or sunset, the desert views are stunning from way up there. You can [go on a group ride or book a private one]( for you and your people. And if the experience changes you forever? Don’t say we didn’t warn you. 🎆 For a different kind of beauty, check out the immersive art installations (and signature cocktails) at [Wonderspaces](. [Taliesin West](, Frank Lloyd Wright’s winter home and laboratory, is also worth a stop. Last but not least: The [Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art]( is full of treasures — and housed in a former movie theater. Psst…itching to book a trip, like, right now? Same. [Plan your perfect itinerary]( and we’ll see you there.* [Ask An Expert Etiquette Edition] We asked you to vote on an etiquette question you’d like answered. The winner was: Q: I’m attending an expensive destination wedding. Do I have to buy a gift for the bride and groom? [woman and man getting married on the beach] “It’s always customary to give the couple a gift, even if [it costs a lot to] attend the wedding. But the couple should keep in mind that an expensive wedding places a financial burden on their guests, so gifts in the $50 to $150 range are ideal. [If even that’s a stretch], a heartfelt handwritten card that expresses your congratulations is a nice personal touch … [Or, perhaps, you can make something that they can] hold on to for years to come as a keepsake. If you have certain skills or a talent, you could also offer to help [with something related to the wedding] or the organizing, cleaning, and packing afterwards. You don’t have to spend a lot, but giving yourself and your time could mean a lot.” [Karene A. Putney] Featured Expert Karene A. Putney [Business etiquette consultant]( and intercultural etiquette trainer [tell us] Which etiquette question should an expert answer next week? [One of my closest work friends recently became my direct report — and she’s repeatedly missed deadlines or shrugged off tasks. How can I address this, without starting a confrontation or making things awkward?]( [Ever since my friend had a child, all we do is hang out at her place and play with her kid — which isn’t really how I want to spend our time together. How can I tell her I need more out of our friendship?]( [Every summer, my friends and I rent a beach house for a week. 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