Could your leadership use a tuneup?

If you find yourself judging others, use it to grow | practice (split each time) | Could your leadership use a tuneup? Created for {EMAIL} | [{NAME}]( at [{NAME}]( [For more relevant content - Update Your Profile]( | [Web Version]( February 16, 2024 CONNECT WITH SMARTBRIEF  [LinkedIn]( [Facebook]( [X]( [SmartBrief on Leadership]( Innovative Ideas. Ahead of the Curve. [SIGN UP]( ⋅ [SHARE]( ADVERTISEMENT Leading the Way [] [If you find yourself judging others, use it to grow]( [If you find yourself judging others, use it to grow]( (SIphotography/Getty Images) Judging others can become a positive exercise when leaders use it to expand compassion for themselves and those around them and as a tool to recognize things within themselves they can improve, writes author and leadership expert Mike Robbins. New research shows that we routinely underestimate how others feel about us, believing that they harshly judge us, when in reality, most people like us and wish for more engagement. Full Story: [Mike Robbins]( (2/15), [Harvard Business Review (tiered subscription model)]( (2/14) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Put it into practice: New research shows that [other people like interacting with us]( much more than we believe, which should prompt us to reach out more to colleagues and friends and actively listen when talking with others. It takes a lot of courage [to be open and vulnerable with others](, Robbins acknowledges, "yet engaging authentically at this level can profoundly transform our relationships for the better." Discover how AI will change your workplace and workforce [Join us March 4-6]( at the Microsoft Silicon Valley Campus in Mountain View, Calif. for a program tailored specifically for C-suite executives, senior HR professionals and future-thinking business leaders, and find out how your peers are preparing for this transformational change in how, when and where we work. [Register to Attend »]( ADVERTISEMENT: [] SmartBrief on Leadership [] [Could your leadership use a tuneup?]( [Could your leadership use a tuneup?]( (Ljubaphoto/Getty Images) The art of leadership shares similarities with car maintenance, drawing parallels that include the importance of regular scheduling, a step-by-step approach, embracing questions and recognizing personal limits, writes Fred Ende, director of curriculum and instructional services for Putnam/Northern Westchester BOCES in Yorktown Heights, N.Y. "If we don't set aside the time to proactively think through our work, and we don't make time for what is important, we run the risk of damaging our reputation, our outcomes and the overall health of the organization," Ende writes. Full Story: [SmartBrief/Leadership]( (2/14) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Put it into practice: Ende highlights [the significance of proactive planning](, methodical progress, reflective leadership and understanding one's capacity for effective leadership tuneups. "The idea is that we know ourselves and know what is possible in the moment, and we make sure that we don't overdo or underdo that which is facing us." [] Smarter Communication [] [When it comes to good speeches, the "eyes" have it]( [When it comes to good speeches, the "eyes" have it]( (Hill Street Studios/Getty Images) Making eye contact while giving a speech or presentation is critical to engaging your audience, writes Robin Stombler, author and president of Auburn Health Strategies. Stombler offers five strategies for developing the practice, including getting comfortable with looking yourself in the eye using a mirror and looking at one audience member per sentence during your presentation to avoid staring too long at a few people. Full Story: [SmartBrief/Leadership]( (2/15) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Put it into practice: Practice your eye contact skills by trying to [notice the color of another person's eyes just at a glance](, and during your talk, make eye contact with an audience member for the count of "three Mississippis" before turning your gaze on others, Stombler advises. "Using eye contact during your speech will make you appear confident and prepared, no matter the circumstances surrounding you." 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