5 rules to foster inclusion through "inner rings"

Why the best leaders are like top gun pilots | practice (split each time) | 5 rules to foster inclusion through "inner rings" Created for {EMAIL} | [{NAME}]( at [{NAME}]( [For more relevant content - Update Your Profile]( | [Web Version]( September 24, 2024 CONNECT WITH SMARTBRIEF  [LinkedIn]( [Facebook]( [X]( [SmartBrief on Leadership]( Innovative Ideas. Ahead of the Curve. [SIGN UP]( ⋅ [SHARE](   Leading the Way [] [Why the best leaders are like top gun pilots]( [Why the best leaders are like top gun pilots]( (Pixabay) As a pilot, Chris Smith, a leadership specialist and aviation counselor, writes that as a leader, he created a culture for the crew that emphasized belonging, teamwork and the ability to bring anything to his attention if they had a concern. "The most important lesson I've learned along the way is to give your crew -- and staff -- a reason to respect and follow you because when times are tough, they are the ones that can truly help you navigate a storm," Smith writes. Full Story: [The CEO Magazine]( (9/23) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Put it into practice: It's the title that gives leaders their clout, but [if you're not working for the respect of your team](, your title will carry little weight with them, Smith notes. "When we have influence, our team will follow us, speak up and tell us what's really going on. And we won't even need a title." [] SmartBrief on Leadership [] [5 rules to foster inclusion through "inner rings"]( [5 rules to foster inclusion through "inner rings"]( (pixelfit/Getty Images) Leaders who expand their "inner rings" can foster a sense of inclusion in their teams by creating an "ego-free zone" that consists of confidentiality and honest and respectful debate where multigenerational perspectives are valued, writes Alaina Love, the CEO of Purpose Linked Consulting. "Structure future team and company-wide meetings to capitalize on the capabilities and knowledge of a wide variety of team members, especially those from different functional areas and disciplines," Love writes. Full Story: [SmartBrief/Leadership]( (9/23) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Put it into practice: Love learned about expanding "inner rings" at a conference where she writes that [groups expected spirited but respectful debate so they could hear different points of view](. "Ask your team to challenge your ideas and those of one another, but do so collaboratively, seeking the best ideas rather than the cleverest quip," Love advises. [] [Read more]( from Alaina Love on SmartBrief on Leadership [] Smarter Communication [] [Don't just say, "I'm sorry." Offer a genuine apology]( Saying "I'm sorry" often isn't enough after an offense, writes leadership expert Steve Keating, who lays out what a heartfelt apology looks like, including making it specific, taking responsibility, expressing regret, making amends and changing future behavior. "After expressing your apology, allow the other person time to share their feelings. Don't rush or pressure them into forgiving you," Keating advises. Full Story: [LeadToday]( (9/22) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Put it into practice: Follow through with your commitment to change behavior after an apology and avoid shifting blame [or saying something like, "I'm sorry you were offended](," Keating writes. "A sincere apology requires vulnerability and a real desire to repair the harm done, rather than just wanting to be forgiven." 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Full Story: [Newsweek (tiered subscription model)]( (9/19) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] SmartBreak: Question of the Day [] Nirvana songwriter Kurt Cobain claims "Smells Like Teen Spirit" was not named after the hygiene product. Which company originally made Teen Spirit deodorant? [Vote]( [Mennen]( [Vote]( [Nestle]( [Vote]( [Procter & Gamble]( [Vote]( [Unilever]( [] Editor's Note [] [Deadline extended for AI innovation awards]( Innovators have another week to submit entries for SmartBrief's newest Innovation Awards program, which will celebrate the best of AI advancements in retail, IT/cybersecurity, education and people management. The program also welcomes ground-breaking ideas for any industry in a general innovation category. [Learn more and submit by 11:59 p.m. PT on Friday](. [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] About The Editor [] Candace Chellew Candace Chellew Chellew (Photo credit: Lester Boykin) "I'm sorry if people were offended." That's the primary type of apology we hear mainly from politicians these days. It's a non-apology, of course. They're really not sorry people were offended. They're usually sorry someone is holding them to account for their behavior. [This is the difference Steve Keating draws out in his article on how to offer a genuine apology](. First, of course, we must feel sorry for some behavior or words that have caused offense or harm. It's that feeling of remorse and the desire to change behaviors in the future to avoid doing any more damage that makes the apology genuine. We may, however, think our apology is the end of the process, but Keating reminds us that we must allow those who have been impacted by our words or actions a chance to respond without insisting they forgive us in that moment. Keating recommends saying something like: "I understand if you need time to process this, but I want to sincerely apologize." The last step, of course, is to follow through. 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