If you can't honor your "yes," it's better to say "no"

If you can't honor your "yes," it's better to say "no" | practice (split each time) | Don't wait until annual reviews to engage employees Created for {EMAIL} | [{NAME}]( at [{NAME}]( [For more relevant content - Update Your Profile]( | [Web Version]( August 9, 2024 CONNECT WITH SMARTBRIEF  [LinkedIn]( [Facebook]( [X]( [SmartBrief on Leadership]( Innovative Ideas. Ahead of the Curve. [SIGN UP]( ⋅ [SHARE]( ADVERTISEMENT Leading the Way [] [If you can't honor your "yes," it's better to say "no"]( [If you can't honor your "yes," it's better to say "no"]( (tolgart/Getty Images) If a boss or co-worker asks you to take on more work but you're not sure you can honor the commitment, it's best to learn now how to say no firmly and politely, writes leadership expert Steve Keating. Some strategies for saying no include being honest and direct about your current workload or situation and proposing an alternative, such as offering to help at a later date or suggesting someone else who may have the capacity, Keating advises. Full Story: [LeadToday]( (8/8) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Put it into practice: It can be most challenging to say no to your boss, Keating notes, but suggests being honest about your workload and [asking to have your tasks prioritized before taking on the extra work](. Keating also recommends practicing saying no with a friend or in front of a mirror so you'll be more comfortable saying it when the time comes. C-Suite Bound: Your Journey Begins Here Tired of watching others get ahead? Join our Aug. 13, 2024, webinar and learn what it really takes to win that big promotion. [Register today »]( ADVERTISEMENT: [] SmartBrief on Leadership [] [Don't wait until annual reviews to engage employees]( [Don't wait until annual reviews to engage employees]( (Thomas Barwick/Getty Images) Leaders can promote career development with employees by cultivating personal relationships on a daily basis, writes Julie Winkle Giulioni, author of "Promotions Are So Yesterday." Leaders should take time to engage employees year round with honesty, curiosity, empathy and patience instead of merely checking off boxes during annual performance reviews, Winkle Giulioni writes. Full Story: [SmartBrief/Leadership]( (8/8) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Put it into practice: Take small steps to strengthen relationships with employees rather than jumping into heart-to-heart conversations. "[It's about the behavior that's demonstrated day in and day out]( that sends the signal of respect, interest and support," Winkle Giulioni writes. [] [Read more]( from Julie Winkle Giulioni on SmartBrief on Leadership [] Smarter Communication [] [Gen Z embraces informal communication style!!!]( Generation Z workers approach email messages with a more relaxed attitude than other generations by including emojis, memes and multiple exclamation points, which can throw off some older workers. Kate Walker, an HR consultant, said Gen Z should just make sure that other people can understand what they're trying to say to avoid looking unprofessional. Full Story: [Fast Company (tiered subscription model)]( (8/8) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Put it into practice: Gen Z isn't afraid to be themselves at work, [which can lead to more engaged employees](. "A lot of Gen Zs really appreciate just coming to work as themselves, and not having to put on a persona," said Celine Chai, CEO and co-founder of NinetyEight, a Gen Z creative agency. Free eBooks and Resources Free eBooks and resources brought to you by our sponsors - [The Communication Process: Skills to achieve desired outcomes]( - [Microsoft Excel: Unlocking the Power of Spreadsheets]( - [The Top 75 Leadership Quotes of 2023 - Part 1]( - [ChatGPT Newbie: Your Essential Handbook for Navigating ChatGPT]( - [The Visual You - Why Body Language Matters When You Speak]( [] Smarter Strategy [] - [Why you need a roadmap for your change strategy]( Prosci (8/6) [] - [How to achieve a strategic workplace DEI program]( Hunt Scanlon Media (8/2) [] - [Improve strategy by developing a data governance plan]( TechRadar (8/7) [] In Their Own Words [] [Use these 3 words from an Olympian to overcome limits]( [Use these 3 words from an Olympian to overcome limits]( Lyles (Patrick Smith/Getty Images) US Olympic sprinter Noah Lyles, who won a gold medal in the 100-meter sprint, has talked openly about his limiting beliefs and posted on social media after the race a list of his challenges, including asthma, ADD, depression and anxiety, but said they do not define him and encouraged fans with three words, "Why Not You?" "I hope everyone who has seen and shared [Lyles'] words remembers that even someone who is truly the best in the world has faced setbacks and challenges," says psychologist and executive coach Lauren Appio. Full Story: [HuffPost]( (8/6) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Daily Diversion [] [Ariz. Cardinals fans can get a "burrito" sugar rush]( The Arizona Cardinals will be offering its Club Level fans a new menu this football season: A "burrito" featuring a cotton candy wrap filled with Skittles, Mini M&M's, Fruity Pebbles and other sweet treats. Club members can also enjoy chicken tenders coated with crushed Flaming Hot Cheetos, and those not inclined to take such risky culinary adventures can browse the vegan, vegetarian and gluten-free menu. Full Story: [KMVP-FM (Phoenix, Ariz.)]( (8/6), [ESPN]( (8/6) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] SmartBreak: Question of the Day [] Of course it took a traffic officer, one William Potts, to develop the three-light traffic signal that is still being used in the US to this day. In which city was Potts' traffic signal first installed? [Vote]( [Chicago]( [Vote]( [Detroit]( [Vote]( [New York]( [Vote]( [Philadelphia]( [] About The Editor [] Candace Chellew Candace Chellew Chellew Saying no is a tricky thing, especially when your boss (or even a good friend) comes calling for a favor or even to give you a challenging project that might advance your career. If you are already overwhelmed with work, you may still take on the extra load, which can cause resentment at best and burnout at worst. [Steve Keating offers a better approach](. He recommends several ways to politely and firmly convey your no. Even with a boss, you have the right of refusal, but Keating recommends asking them to prioritize your tasks for you. Does the new assignment take precedence, or can it come after you complete other duties? Ask them to be clear, and you should be clear about your current workload. They may not know how much you're already doing! As Keating notes: "The ability to say no when no needs to be said is an absolute superpower. It is freeing. It is life-changing. Learn to say no, and you'll soon be saying yes to amazing opportunities that you never had time for before." If this newsletter helps you, please tell your colleagues, friends or anyone who can benefit. Forward them this email, or [send this link](. What topics do you see in your daily work that I should know about? Do you have praise? Criticism? [Drop me a note](mailto:candace.chellew@futurenet.com). And don't forget to send me photos of your pets, your office and where you spend your time off. [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( Sharing SmartBrief on Leadership with your network keeps the quality of content high and these newsletters free. Help Spread the Word [SHARE]( Or copy and share your personalized link: smartbrief.com/leadership/?referrerId=japnABMSAp [] [] Who Said It? Know that listening is your secret weapon. Markus Zusak or Sarah Jessica Parker [Check your answer here.]( [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email](   SmartBrief publishes more than 200 free industry newsletters - [Browse our portfolio]( [Sign Up]( | [Update Profile]( | [Advertise with SmartBrief]( [Unsubscribe]( | [Privacy policy]( CONTACT US: [FEEDBACK]( | [ADVERTISE](mailto:lengel@smartbrief.com) [SmartBrief Future]( Copyright © 2024 SmartBrief. All Rights Reserved. A division of Future US LLC Full 7th Floor, 130 West 42nd Street, New York, NY, 10036.