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Mar 13, 2022 Introduction Today [nearly 55%]( of the world's 4.2 billion inhabitants live in cities. By 2050, the U.N. estimates nearly 7 out of 10 people in the world will live in urban areas. By 2050, it is estimated that [43 megacities]( will exist â urban centers with populations greater than 10 million people. Our cities are the beating hearts of our society, engines of our economic, social and political lives. But what comes to mind when you hear the words âurbanâ and âinner-cityâ? Opportunity and hope? Cement jungles? For some, the words conjure up images of buildings, traffic, noise, crowded streets, and the anxiety and excitement of fast-paced life. For others, the words âurbanâ and âinner-cityâ evoke images of crime, distress, poverty, and grittiness. Not kindness, generosity, and compassionate love.  In todayâs Elevate the Conversation, we examine urban kindness. What is it? How can we find it and cultivate more of it? Given this growing importance, is there a key to unlocking more goodness in our growing urban centers? [TAKE OUR POLL](: Do you associate goodness and kindness with urban areas? Defining Urban and Inner City [Cambridge Dictionary defines]( urban as âa city or townâ and inner city as âthe[central]([part]( of a[city]( where there are often[problems]( because[people]( are[poor]( and there are few[jobs]( and[bad]([housing](.â For the purposes of this discussion, we use the term âurbanâ to signify a large city (and sometimes interchangeably with the term âinner cityâ). Understanding the Urban Narrative Goodness is Uninteresting Or so it seems to many. Kindness is mundane. Author [Toni Morrison]( argues that we may not notice everyday goodness because, sadly, we have come to imagine goodness as âweak,â âboringâ and âpitiful.â Research on kindness by sociologists [Julie Brownlie and Simon Anderson]( supports Morrisonâs claims. It appears we are drawn to the spectacle of unkindness, nastiness and narcissism. These ways of being may register powerfully for us because of the strong emotions they evoke â shock, fear, anger. But maybe thereâs a deeper, more primal reason we notice the darkness more than the light. Our tendency to pay more attention to the darker side is rooted in an evolutionary phenomenon called our ânegativity bias.â For early humans, being highly attuned to hostile, scary or threatening aspects of their surroundings was a matter of life and death. So itâs hardwired in our DNA. Hardened by Urban Life We assume that urban dwellers are naturally hardened by the challenges of urban life. There is something seductive about stories of people who are so affected by the stress of the gritty city that they become unremittingly self-protective, thick-skinned and tough. This view of city residents pervades much of how we think. In fact, the renowned social psychologist [Stanley Milgram]( proposed that city residents are so overloaded by the stress of city life that in order to survive they must limit who and what they pay attention to in their environments, and in turn limit the reach of their empathy. Of course, the truth is much more complicated. Research demonstrates that stress and suffering do not invariably lead people to close themselves off from loving and generous contact with others. In fact, psychologist [Johanna Vollhardt]( has shown that people who have endured stress and adversity often use those experiences to fuel a commitment to caring compassionately for others. Confusing Good and Bad We confuse âgoodâ and âbadâ places, with âgoodâ and âbadâ people. In our quest for shortcuts, we often conflate the physical conditions of spaces with the spiritual and moral character of their residents. We often assume that we are safe when we are in orderly, well-kept and highly resourced urban areas. We believe that the people who occupy these kinds of spaces are good, or at least that they are not harmful. Conversely, when we see images of urban areas marked by disrepair (broken windows, cracked sidewalks, graffiti) it evokes anxiety and fear, and we tend to equate these structural failings with the character and values of the people who live there. We make similar judgments about the ethnic and racial composition of urban spaces. [Research]( has shown that through a steady diet of racist social messaging, we are taught to associate Black, Brown and poor people with crime and other forms of social disorder, even when crime statistics and personal experience clearly demonstrate no such relationship. It is difficult to override the stereotypes and biases that lead us to experience discomfort and fear, even when we are conscious of them. It is even harder to see goodness in the people we have been taught to fear.
Discovering Urban Kindness Hiding in Plain Sight? Here is the irony. On any given day in any urban center, people commit millions of acts of kindness, some random and some habitual. Every day in urban schools â particularly those that lack funding â teachers use their own money to pay for [classroom](supplies. Every day in urban businesses, coworkers who notice the troubles of their peers take the time to listen. Every day in urban spaces, people open doors for others and take time out to comfort those who are hurting. In a variety of circumstances people give money or food to people in need. In urban churches, mosques, temples and gurdwaras people engage in common acts of charity. Every day in urban spaces, children forgive and protect each other, and adolescents help their parents, siblings and peers. In cities everywhere we can find people standing up to bullies and stopping to give directions to visitors who are lost. Every day in cities people give time and compassion to others. Do Cities Get a Bad Rap? In reality, kindness is everywhere in urban settings. So why do we frequently and uncritically lean into representations of cities as places of crime, indifference, meanness, narcissism or nihilism? Why donât we first imagine cities as places of care, compassion, empathy and love?Â
Catch CNNâs Fareed Zakaria [Lessons from Post-COVID World]( The Big Picture Detecting Goodness Goodness is sometimes hard to detect because it shows up in unexpected ways. It is easy to regard the volunteerism of millions of urban residents as reflections of goodness. However, goodness does not always show up in intuitive ways. We sometimes miss the reality that collective and individual acts of justice that happen in cities are also evidence of goodness. Mass protests calling for boosts to the minimum wage, for fairer working conditions and for an end to violence against all human beings are collective acts of humanity and goodness. Research shows that when structures of power â including parents, schools and governments â fail to protect vulnerable people, empathetic individuals sometimes must stretch[moral lines]( in order to care for those in need. People sometimes lie, in order to keep others safe. Children sometimes fight, in order to defend and protect their peers. Sometimes goodness is only properly understood when we understand the motivations behind it. Whatâs at Stake? Why does it matter that we pay attention to goodness in urban areas? Because our reality is shaped as much by the stories we tell, as by the stories we donât tell. When we repeat the narrative over and over of cities as places of crime and chaos, we may convince ourselves that goodness is the exception. We persuade ourselves that we are in perpetual danger. We may even stoke our own fears and build unnecessary walls between ourselves and those around us. When we ignore the opening of doors, the giving of food, money and time, and the hours of generous listening, we lose crucial opportunities to reinforce and cultivate the goodness around us. And when policymakers, police officers, social workers, store attendants and others who make decisions about the lives of urban-dwellers cannot envision urban dwellers as good people, the outcomes can be dire. Embracing Goodness Cities and their inhabitants do experience significant challenges. Crime, hyper-surveillance, economic stress, noise and light pollution are all very real. And many of these challenges are prevalent in urban areas. However, we can acknowledge these truths while also acknowledging the abiding presence of goodness. Those of us who live and work in urban centers are steeped in everyday mercies and kindnesses. By ignoring the goodness of our loved ones, neighbors and strangers, by losing our trust in people, we risk creating the very world we fear â a world where goodness slowly ebbs away. GO DEEPER Urban Life Lessons Beyond finding kindness in cities, OZY has taken a deep look at urban life around the globe. Weâve asked what makes a city click? Why do some fail? How are urban hubs around the world reinventing themselves to stay attractive to both existing residents and newcomers? Individual cities arenât guaranteed perpetual growth. [Detroit](, once an epitome of Americaâs manufacturing prowess, and [Aden](, the Yemeni city that was the worldâs second busiest port in the 1950s, are shadows of their former selves. One of the worldâs first cities, [Uruk,](in Sumer, no longer exists. While other ancient urban hubs, such as Jerusalem, Athens or Damascus, are still vibrant metropolises. Below are just a few global lessons from urban life straight from the OZY archives: Innovation from the Ashes of War Months â and in some cases years â of sieges and conflict with the Islamic State group have left large urban centers from the Middle East to Southeast Asia in ruin. Now freed, Mosul in Iraq, Marawi in the Philippines and Kobani in Syria arenât just rebuilding what was destroyed â designers, residents and aid agencies are creating modern cities that address the social, economic and infrastructure shortcomings that allowed the Islamic State group to capture them in the first place. [Read More]( All Eyes on Asia for Sustainable Urbanization Asia is home to the most ambitious âsmart cityâ projects, from the UAEâs Masdar to Indiaâs Amaravati to Chinaâs Tianjin Eco-City, districts aiming to go completely green, with driverless electric cars and zero-emissions buildings. But the combined population of all these startup cities could fit inside one neighborhood of Chinaâs Chongqing. Whether Asians can scale the innovations of their experimental zones to the level of their many megalopolis cities is the question whose answer will hold lessons for the rest of the world. [Read More]( Move Over Cape Town, Port Elizabeth is on the Rise Port Elizabeth has long suffered a reputation as a cultural desert compared to Cape Town or Johannesburg. Now rare teamwork between the local municipality, the federal government and a growing band of entrepreneurs is allowing the city to use tax incentives and a low cost of living to attract creative professionals and businesses. [Read More]( Making Citiesâ Pasts Their Futures: Breathing New Life Into Empty Buildings Spanish real estate developer Fernando Palazuelo lost most of his wealth in the 2008 economic crisis. So he did what many Spaniards did before him â look for opportunity in the Americas. In Lima, he found it, in the form of a historic city center left dilapidated by neglect from Peruâs wealthy elite. Palazuelo is now restoring Limaâs history â one that was built in part by his native nation. [Read More]( JOIN THE CONVERSATION What can you do to show kindness or love in your city? Join the conversation and share with us on [FB,]( [IG](, [Twitter]( with the hashtag #ElevatetheConversation #OZY #KindnessMatters #UrbanLove Audience Comment âI live in this village in Austin where we are lifting people off the streets, one person at a time. See [Community First! Villages](â -- Paul COMMUNITY CORNER We want to hear from you! Do you feel like you regularly recognize kindness in your city? What does it look like? Weâd love to hear your thoughts on examples of kindness and goodness around the globe. Write to us at:  OzyCommunity@ozy.com and [Take our Poll.]( [Take Our Poll]( Results of Last Weekâs Epic Comebacks Poll ABOUT OZY OZY is a diverse, global and forward-looking media and entertainment company focused on âthe New and the Next.â OZY creates space for fresh perspectives, and offers new takes on everything from news and culture to technology, business, learning and entertainment. [www.ozy.com]( / #OZY Curiosity. Enthusiasm. Action. Thatâs OZY!
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