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[Image] Struggling with Tough Choices? This Mental Habit Helps The 3 questions that changed my decision-making life. Hello, Let's be real - as busy adults, we're often faced with tough decisions that can impact our work, personal lives, and overall well-being. In the fast-paced world we live in, it's easy to make impulsive choices without fully considering the long-term consequences. But what if I told you there's a simple practice that can help you make more purposeful and balanced decisions that align with your values and goals? Here's the idea: Before making a decision, take a moment to ask yourself three straightforward questions. I call this "The Alignment Check," but you can think of it however you like. - Does this decision align with my values, priorities, and goals? Will it move me closer to the life I envision for myself? - Does it serve a meaningful purpose and contribute to my overall well-being and success? Is it truly adding value to my life? - Is this the right time, considering my current circumstances and commitments? Will it help me make the most of the present moment? The inspiration comes from the Stephen Covey's (The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People) principle of "Beginning with the end in mind." By pausing to reflect on these questions, you're ensuring your choices are intentional and contribute to your overall fulfillment. The beauty lies in the simplicity and versatility. These questions provide a flexible framework for evaluating decisions from multiple angles, helping you make choices that contribute to your well-being and success. Let me give you a few examples of how you can apply this in everyday situations: - Deciding whether to take on an additional project at work? Ask if it aligns with your career goals, serves a purposeful need for growth, and is timely given your current workload. - Choosing how to spend a free evening after a busy day? Should you catch up on work, spend time with loved ones, or do a hobby? Evaluate which option aligns with your priorities, rejuvenates you meaningfully, and fits your current energy levels. - Attend a social event or work late for a deadline? Consider the alignment with goals, purposefulness of socializing vs. work, and timeliness based on your workload. As you can see, this simple practice is powerful for navigating all sorts of decisions, big and small. Now, here's how you can make it a habit: - Create a visual reminder with the three questions placed visibly. - Pause before deciding to reflect on the questions - a mindful shift from reactive to proactive. - Each evening, reflect on how aligned your day's decisions were with your values and well-being. I can tell you from experience that consistently applying these reflections has been transformative for aligning my choices with my core values and creating a more balanced, fulfilling life. Fewer regrets, better focus, productivity, and an overall greater sense of purpose. If you need additional support, [LifeHack All-Access offers personalized coaching](, guided exercises and a wealth of resources devoted to effective decision-making and growth. The journey is ongoing, but make this simple practice a habit and watch as it revolutionizes how you navigate life's complexities, one intentional choice at a time. Cheers, Leon Founder & CEO @ LifeHack Elevate Your Decision Making with Lifehack All-Access Take your personal growth to the next level with our extensive library of reflection prompts, goal-setting workshops, and support. [Learn More]( [Facebook]( [Twitter]( [Instagram]( [YouTube]( [LinkedIn]( [Pinterest]( 2024 © LifeHack. All Rights Reserved. [Unsubscribe here]( Lifehack, Unit 33554, PO Box 6945, London, W1A 6US, United Kingdom