[Episode 49] Enlightenment

[Episode 49] Enlightenment   How to get physical fast with any woman in any situation… and have her thank you for it afterwards, eager to see you again! [( ********** Hey Guys,   When I got on the plane back to Austin, I was exhausted, mentally and physically. I’d usually been bad about sleeping on airplanes, but this time I went right to sleep, and when I woke up I was in a better frame of mind.   I felt like I’d hit rock bottom after being at the top of the mountain, but was starting to climb my way back up. It was only a little bit, but it seemed as if I’d left part of my heartbreak in Seattle.   It was time to live again, even if for only a little bit at a time. I decided to take a break from women for a little while, to give me time to think about what I’d just learned.   The plane landed and I got off, home in Austin, TX. It’s always good to come home to Austin, but this time felt better than before. The night was clear, and there was a hint of Spring in the air, as if foreshadowing a rebirth.   Over the next few weeks I concentrated on work, fitness, and friends. No dating, no women, no attraction. I let my mind lay fallow, for the replanting of seeds to come.   It wasn’t easy—heartbreak never is. I had trouble sleeping, and every night the same dreams would come, dreams of her, crying as she drove away. I couldn’t shake that image. Getting up was hard too, but I made myself do it.   A month passed, and I was still heartbroken. Would this feeling ever go away? It had to—after all, I wasn’t the first guy to get my heart ripped out by an impossible situation.   Then six weeks passed. Then two months. And then, it happened. I woke up one morning, and the first thing on my mind was not Kara. It was work. I didn’t realize it until later, but that was the first morning I’d gotten up and not thought about her.   All of a sudden things felt better. The pain was still there, but it was like it was healing, getting better. Subsequent days passed, and I felt better every day—my heartbreak was dissipating at an accelerating rate.   Then and there I understood the structure of heartbreak, the last lesson in my journey to discover the secrets of attraction.    When a woman suddenly leaves you, you’re filled with a negative, heavy energy, almost like a fluid. Think of a deep pool of murky water, very wide across the top, narrowing to a point at the bottom like an upside down pyramid.   That’s the pool of heartbreak. As you move forward in time, that pool of water starts to evaporate—but you don’t notice it at first. The pool is so wide across the top that evaporation produces a very small drop in the level of the pool. It is imperceptible.   Every day the murky water evaporates at a constant rate, but you don’t notice it because the surface of the pool is so wide. It feels like your heartbreak will stay with you forever. But then, one day, enough water evaporates so you look at the pool and notice is lower.   With each passing day, it becomes more obvious the pool is evaporating because even though the murky water is evaporating at a constant rate, there’s much less of it left as the pool narrows. Every day you appear to be much closer to the bottom than the day before, and then one day you wake up and it’s dry.   Your heartbreak is gone, and you’re ready to find another, better woman. But you’re stronger, more able to withstand any heartbreak that may come your way, and you have an empty pool to fill up with the connection and chemistry that comes from attracting a truly special woman into your life.   And should that water turn murky again, you know in time it will evaporate. No woman or heartbreak will hold you down ever again, because now you understand how heartbreak works. You have a power over it, and that power will allow you to keep going until you find the woman you feel is really right for you.   It’s a power few men have. Most wallow in their heartbreak, refilling the pool with murky water instead of letting it just evaporate. Self pity, doubt, ignorance, and willful misery keep the pool full. Action, knowledge, and willful desire to evaporate the pool get you past it.   And so the wise woman on the plane was right. You cannot experience love until you understand heartbreak, and in that sense Kara gave me the greatest gift any man could get—power over his outcomes with women.   I may have lost her in the moment, but I gained a power that led me to the ultimate secret of attraction, the one secret the girlie men in the media don’t want you to know. When you know it, you’ll be able to have what all men want, yet few ever achieve.   I’ll tell you that secret in an upcoming episode.    There was no doubt I was a changed man, transformed, even. In the space of four intense months, I’d experienced the highest highs, and the lowest lows. While my knowledge of attraction will never be 100% complete, for the first time I felt…   …enlightened.   I’d passed every attraction test that came my way, even the worst one, and now it was time to fulfill on my promise to myself, my promise to share my knowledge with other men, to liberate them from the psychological hold of society and the girlie men in the media…     TO BE CONTINUED…   On with the fun,   -John Alanis “The King of Let ‘em Come to You”   PS   I have a good friend of mine who is an expert at showing men how to quickly and easily develop deep attraction with a woman, so she’ll think about you and only you.   This is powerful stuff, and not for the faint of heart, but it is a must for any man who wants to get in a committed relationship with a woman and keep her happy.    My friend has a free DVD for the next 20 men to claim it that reveals his deep attraction secrets, but if you want a copy, you’d better hurry. He’s going to end this offer soon, and start selling this DVD for a ton of dough.   But, if you go here now:   [(   …you can claim your copy before it’s too late. 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