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[Beardbrand Logo]( FRIENDSHIPS There is this Venn diagram for many men over thirty â one circle is for "friendships where you can be vulnerable." The other circle is for "friends who live close to you." Sadly, the circles do not overlap. Over the years, I have developed many great friendships with incredible men. But as life happens, distance comes between those friendships. Suddenly, youâre back at square one and trying to build another strong relationship. Commonly, those new connections arenât just right, and you can only keep it to surface-level pleasantries. Iâve felt alone in this world many times. I needed a friend who could understand my work challenges, my relationship challenges, or my parenting challenges and could discuss them over a beer in person. I had no release, and it only led to darkness. Fortunately, right now, I feel I have it as good as it gets in todayâs world. No, I canât walk down a few houses to a good friend, but I have several in Austin. No, I canât usually be spontaneous, but many are down to grab lunch at a momentâs notice. I talked to my dad about how hard it is to have friendships as an adult man, and he shared a similar sentiment. I know this happens to men of all generations. WHAT CAN YOU DO ABOUT IT? This past week, I went to Olympic National Park to sleep in a cold-ass tent for three nights and test our new deodorant prototype. This trip is an annual event put on by my good friend, Will Roman of Chisos. Itâs approximately 15 like-minded guys from Austin and around the States. I know about half of them, and I get to know the others. We disconnect from technology from families and spend much time sharing our current challenges (and a little bit of roasting each other). Basically, we can let loose, know that weâre in good company who wonât judge, and build stronger relationships. WHAT ARE THE LOGISTICS? Step 1: Many months in advance, find three consecutive nights in a beautiful park. Weâve found majestic environments create more intense experiences. Itâs also nice to have a bathroom.
Step 2: Set the values for the group and start recruiting people. Itâs more enticing if you can handle food & water. Include a fee to cover those costs. Plan on a couple of last-minute cancellations.
Step 3: Create an online document with trip details, gear needed, contact information, and attendee arrival/departure information.
Step 4: Start an email thread for those committed to help start conversations and allow other newbies to get to know others digitally.
Step 5: Meet up in nature and enjoy the time together. Have one or two hikes planned, and leave the schedule mostly open and flexible.
Step 6: Repeat next year. DONâT BE AFRAID TO LEAD People donât know if youâre looking for this type of experience. Sometimes, you need to take a risk and be the person to create the world you want to be part of. Most people will say "no," but if you can get a few core people on board, you can leverage their friendships and network. Be sure to set expectations. You can make the event whatever you wantâfriend roasting, spirituality, yoga, fitness, beer drinking, fishing, etc. (or maybe all of the above). Whatâs important is that you do something like this regularly. Thereâs no reason that you tackle the worldâs challenges alone. These events will help you close that Venn diagram and can help you make friends who are physically and emotionally close. Keep on growing! Eric Bandholz
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